Working With Me
When you approach me as a client there are certain rules and boundaries I will expect you to adhere to, if these are broken then you will no longer be a client of mine. I will also adhere to these same rules and boundaries and understand that breaking them may mean that you choose to no longer work with me.
Consent
Consent is the core principal for all kink relationships, professional or private, and that extends to my working relationship with you. I have a zero tolerance policy. If you break my consent, you will be banned. If you are dishonest with me about your experience, status, limits, or desires, and therefore put me at risk or risk my breaking your consent, I will end our working relationship.
If you ever feel like I have broken your consent then I want you to feel able to tell me. I will always take any such incidents deeply seriously and will work with you in whatever way feels best for you to resolve the issue. I understand that such an incident would likely mean that you no longer wish to be my client and I would have no expectation of your continued business. Even if you no longer wish to work with me I would still like the chance to resolve any consent issues, though I also understand and respect you may wish not to have any further contact with me.
My Time
I'm more than happy to support my clients with drop, however, beyond that, having a working relationship does not entitle you to my time, attention, affection or labour outside of its own constraints.
I enforce a cancellation policy. Deposits are non-refundable as they cover the cost of my labour in preparing a session. You must give notice of a cancellation at least 48 hours before your session is due to start. Repeated short notice cancellations will result in me ending our working relationship.
Exceptions: Please do not come to the session if you have an infectious illness of any type. If you show up and you're symptomatic, I maintain the right to cancel our session. If you become ill after a session please inform me as soon as you are aware you are symptomatic so that I can be aware of potential illness.
If we happen to meet in other spaces, you must not acknowledge our working relationship. This includes other kink spaces.
Disclaimer: There is a limit on pre-session negotiations. If we agree to work together, I will put every effort into understanding and catering to your needs. However, I recognise not everyone is compatible, and I aim to respect both of our time.
Rates and Additional Costs
My hourly rates start at £200. I do not take booking for less than 1 hour.
This does not include the cost of hiring a space, such as a hotel room, venue, or dungeon - we can discuss which environment would suit your needs best during negotiations and you will then be responsible for covering this cost.
I do not do in-calls. I only do out-calls. Please do not expect to be able to come to me, we will need to find a mutually agreeable location.
I will cover the cost of most consumable items, however there may be additional charges for items specific to yourself that cannot be used with others ie an outfit that you may wish to wear.
All booking will require a non-refundable deposit to be secured. This amount may vary depending on factors such as the length or location of a session.
Sexual Contact
I do not offer full service sex work. I do, however, offer a range of other sexual services as a part of a kink scene ie orgasm denial, pegging, oral sex.
The focus of my work is kink and dynamic based, if you try to book a session that is purely sex based OR I arrive at a session with you to find that you have used kinky language to try and get a sex based session with me then I will leave and have no further contact with you.
All sexual play that involves potential fluid exchange will require the use of protective barriers. I provide a range of options to accommodate issues such as allergies or comfort.
Booking Confirmation
Bookings will only be confirmed once I have received both the non-refundable deposit and photographic ID. Both of these are required for a booking to be made. The ID that you provide will be stored in accordance with my data protection policy.
Other
There is information that I ask for when you contact me – I expect you to be honest. I’m not asking any of it to be intrusive or to judge, but I need it in order to make risk assessments. It allows me to plan to keep you safe, or, in some cases, to decide if we are compatible.
I use the RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) basis for planning and running sessions. This means that I will balance your desires with what will keep you safe and what I will stay within what we have both consented to prior to the session starting.
Please note that I use “kink” as a term that is interchangeable with BDSM.
Many of the types of play I offer can leave bruising/marks. If this would be an issue for you please let me know on your booking form and we can discuss ways to minimise this risk or take those activities off of the table for our session. My favourite colour is green.
I do expect a basic level of hygiene. Please do us both the courtesy of at least showering and brushing your teeth before a session.
Data Protection Policy
All your data will be stored in accordance within the current GDPR guidelines.
I will also behave with the utmost discretion when interacting with you. I understand that there may be people in your life less supportive of the kink needs that you have and I will not risk ‘outing’ you in any given situation.
Hard Limits
These are my hard limits and are things that I will not do with clients. I also expect you to have limits of your own, please make sure you let me know what these are during negotiations. If you haven’t thought about your personal limits before I can provide a spreadsheet of kinks that might help you work through this and narrow it down.
Scat
Phone Sex
Shibari/ropework
Full Service
Boyfriend Experience
Photography of Me
24/7 Dynamics
Subbing
Fluid Exchange
Blood Play
Tickling
Permanent Markings
Breath Play
Significant/serious Injury
Permanent Modifications